What would you think if you saw four coffee makers lined up on someone's counter like little soldiers? That's what I walked into last week at a recently divorced woman's house. She wasn't lazy or disorganized—she was drowning in the gap between who she used to be and who she'd become. After a decade of helping people downsize, I've learned that your home tells a story, and sometimes it's whispering that your life has outgrown your space.

Moving ranks as one of life’s biggest stress tests—especially for Boomers and Gen Xers juggling decades of belongings and big life changes. The good news? With some foresight and practical strategies, you can take your move from a total migraine to “I can do hard things.” Here are 9 moving tips for Boomers and Gen Xers to help you declutter, plan, and settle in with less chaos and more confidence.