You’re at the bottom of the stairs with a full laundry basket. You’ve made this trip hundreds of times. Maybe lately you’ve started to dread it. You might wonder how much longer you’ll want to keep doing this. Perhaps you’ve even started thinking about moving. But you’d miss your garden and the neighbours you’ve known for years. And you’d be making a big decision over a laundry basket. You’d be letting the tail wag the dog. Take another look at the laundry. You can find out w